The beginning of the week was pretty typical. But by Wednesday, it took a serious turn for the weird.
A little back story is needed here. You see, the marriage between my mother and legal father was not a happy one. As a matter of fact, it was very UNhappy. Due to this fact, my mother had an affair. Now, since my legal father is sterile (which is why all of my siblings are adopted), when my mother became pregnant, it was pretty obvious to all concerned parties that her husband was NOT, in fact, my biological father. He still signed my birth certificate and claimed me. He never held it against me, and always treated me like his own just as much as he did my brothers. When I was nearly 14 and found out about all this, I gained a lot more respect for him. It was a contributing factor to their marriage becoming even more unhappy and ending, but I was never treated like it was my fault in any way.
Anyhow, after finding out about my biological father, I wanted to meet him. Not because I need a dad in my life, I already have 2 great ones. But because I feel like it would be nice to know a bit more about where I came from, and well, I think it's important to know a bit about medical history on both sides of my biological family. But I never got the opportunity to meet him. For about 17 years now, I have been hoping to.
Wednesday, I got a message and friend request on Facebook from my biological father. We've sent each other a couple of messages now. He seems pretty nice.
Friday, more feelings of weird were added, because my mom and her boyfriend announce they are getting married. Probably in June.
I think the biological father things wins out for which is weirder. But still...
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